Talking about sex while dating
She makes and sells linen garments; she delivers belts to the merchants. Her husband is known at the city gates, where he sits among the elders of the land. Titus 2:3-5 “Older women likewise are to exhibit behavior fitting for those who are holy, not slandering, not slaves to excessive drinking, but teaching what is good. She sees that her profits are good, and her lamp never goes out at night.
Marriage shows the relationship between Christ and the church. Two sinful people are united into one and they commit to each other in everything. Run to Christ and whoever is keeping up with you introduce yourself. You will start saying, “maybe I’m too this, maybe I’m too that, maybe I need to start looking like this, maybe I need to buy that.” That is idolatry and of the devil. He wants you to keep on knocking and one day He is going to say, “enough, you want it? If she grows feelings for you she is going to be hurt if you decide that you never really liked her.If you don’t think that you are going to marry this person and if you don’t feel like God has possibly brought this person into your life for marriage, then stop wasting each other’s time. Does she seek to build you up and help you with what God has for you? Sometimes Christians get into relationships with Christians and it just doesn’t work out. What you must not do is become bitter and say, “everyone around me is in a relationship why am I not? Now take care of him and lay down your life for her.”We don’t talk much about guarding each other’s heart, but this extremely important. She opens her mouth with wisdom and loving instruction is on her tongue. Strength and honor are her clothing, and she can laugh at the time to come.
I’m interested in meeting people, getting to know them, developing a foundation of trust and open communication, and then, , embarking on a sexual relationship.